Self-esteem

What Makes Self-Care Keep Evolving?

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Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash It still amazes me that I am allowed to take care of myself.The whole idea of putting on one’s own oxygen mask before helping others has been foreign to me. Or should I say that in the past it has been foreign. Recently, I have made a concerted effort to include my own needs in my plans. This can be seen in my attitude towards things I always … [Read more...] about What Makes Self-Care Keep Evolving?

Which Coping Statements for Depression Work for Me?

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Positive coping statements for depression is one tool that keeps me from circling the drain.Having spent decades with unhelpful thinking, that was all I knew. And depression was right there to steer me away when I got near coping statements for depression. It often sent me time traveling. I spent more time in the future than Marty in “back to the future.” The future for me was … [Read more...] about Which Coping Statements for Depression Work for Me?

A Time to Sow, A Time to Reap – My Unhelpful Thinking Exposed

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After 15 months of sowing, I am beyond doubt getting to reap some benefits.Depression is no longer the unknown figure lurking in the wings, trying to lure me with candy and peanuts. There are many tools I use daily to understand the sneaky, devious ways depression exploits situations to entice me to follow its ideas.Just yesterday, depression was attempting to insist I question … [Read more...] about A Time to Sow, A Time to Reap – My Unhelpful Thinking Exposed

Why Am I Afraid to Be Me?

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Most days, I must explain to you why I am allowing myself some self-care time.For some reason, I don’t feel like I deserve to have “me time.” I grew up without learning how to look out for myself first. Now that may seem off-base to those closest to me. I have set goals, achieved results and always been the go-to person. And many of my projects were thought of and implemented … [Read more...] about Why Am I Afraid to Be Me?