• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
  • About
  • Mental Health Resources
    • Depression Resources
  • Blog
    • Coping
    • Medication
    • Self Care
    • Stress and Anxiety
    • Unhelpful thinking
      • Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda
      • Fortune-Telling
      • Guilt and Shame
      • Time Travel
    • Sleep Issues
    • Depression
    • Covid19
    • Suicide & Self-Harm
    • Wellness Tools
      • SMART – Self Management And Recovery Training
      • WRAP (Wellness Recovery Action Plan)
      • Change Triangle
  • Contact
  • SHOP
Green apples with smiley faces symbolizing concealed depression.

My Concealed Depression

My thoughts on my lifetime of Major Depressive Disorder with suicidal ideation.

You are here: Home / Featured Home / I Found 7 Tips for Living with Depression

I Found 7 Tips for Living with Depression

June 3, 2020 by Depression Is Not My Boss

A green square sign with the number 7 in white.
A pair of silver adjustable crutches with hand grips and rubber tips.

Depression is a serious mood disorder that affects millions of people in the U.S. every year — but an array of effective treatments and strategies are available.

Annually, about 1 in 15 adults will live with depression or experience at least one major depressive episode. In 2017, an estimated 17.3 million adults “had at least one major depressive episode,†according to the National Institute of Mental Health. That was more than 7% of the U.S. population.

]“Depression is deeply painful and all-consuming,†says Dana Dorfman, a psychotherapist based in New York City. “It affects every aspect of a person’s life — their mood, thoughts, relationships, physical health, energy and behavior.â€

READ THE ENTIRE ARTICLE: https://wtop.com/news/2020/06/7-tips-for-living-with-depression/-

7 Tips for Living with Depression

  1. Learn your warning signs and mood boosters.
  2. Block out the next day’s schedule.
  3. Consider professional help.
  4. Medication
  5. Exercise
  6. Keep in mind that you will feel better
  7. Delay major decisions when you are feeling depressed

Learn your warning signs – I have a written WRAP wellness recovery action plan where I have listed triggers (warning signs). By referring to this, I can better see what is going on with my attitude and what my actions are telling me about my behavior. Road rage comes to mind. I have written about that trigger a lot in the past 12 months.

Block out the next day’s schedule – This may be one of my missing pieces. I have lists all over the place. Years ago, I took the Franklin planner, time management course. When I am on my game, I am still practicing elements of that. Getting back to a daily plan will be helpful. Now I just must plan to do it.

Consider Professional Help – That is one of the main reasons I am here today, still working on figuring out my life with depression. I assembled a team of Therapists, Psychiatrists, Peer Advocates, and other supporters. All have been a part of my recovery and life with MDD. However, the pandemic has put the brakes on in-person sessions, and I have not scheduled follow up therapist session (a trigger for me). I am still meeting by phone with my Peer Advocate.

READ: Three Things I Learned While Circling The Drain

Medication – I have been on Prozac for over a year. Working with a Psychiatrist, we have adjusted the dosage twice since the initial prescription was written. Now I have a new Psychiatrist who is part of my insurance network. I am to meet with him in person next Thursday. Maybe I can be completely honest and not fall into my concealed depression act, making light of what is really going on. Knowing I am good at that reminds me that this is defiantly a trigger.

Exercise – This was what rescued me from my first major run-in with depression. Running saved my life. As I have said in previous posts, it started as a nightly walk because I did not know what else to do. Soon I was jogging. Then it became running. Three to Six or seven miles every single day. I was pumping so many endorphins into my body that depression took almost 15 years to figure out how to stage a comeback.

Keep in Mind That You Will Feel Better – There are days where this is obvious. But there are many more where I cannot see that things will ever change. I ended up in the hospital because I had hit the wall and could not see a way forward. It was just dull, fuzzy, sameness. No feelings, no optimism, no nothing. Reading my WRAP plan helps remind me that I can live a balanced life with depression.

Delay Major Decisions When You are Feeling Depressed – I have practiced this several times in the past year. Making the decision about accepting a Management position with a Non-Profit was one time I put the brakes on swift action. By stepping back and evaluating the decision, using a CBA worksheet, I could see the pluses and minuses of that decision. In the end, I did not take the position. Now, I am feeling the added strain of the pandemic on top of MDD. Delaying major decisions is what I am all about. Besides not having the energy, I know I need to not do anything rash. Depression loves when I act impulsively. And if I can be secretive about it, depression is even happier.

I have found value in this article and appreciate the authors insights.

It has me thinking about what is important for me and my recovery. And I see what is in it for me by doing all these things. Having a better daily schedule will help, along with much more exercise. I will focus on these two, as they are the most removed from my actions today.

My concealed depression is written under the alias “Depression is not my boss.†I have certifications in SMART Recovery and am a Global Career Development Facilitator.

Diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder last year, I am sharing what I learn. If you know someone who might benefit from reading this, please share. 

I very much appreciate your comments.

Filed Under: Coping Statements for Depression, Covid19, Featured Home, Medication, Some days I feel like myself, The cost of success, therapy, Unhelpful thinking, WRAP (Wellness Recovery Action Plan) Tagged With: concealed depression, depression, depression and anxiety, depression is not my boss, depression treatment, depressionisreal, Exercise, my concealed depression, prozac, prozac 40mg, prozac20mg, unhealthy thinking styles, unhelpful thinking styles, US News & World Report

Primary Sidebar

Joel Natl Career Fair Bio Pic he's using for my concealed depressionHello, I am Joel Quas 

In April 2019, I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder with suicidal ideation. By writing things out, I am learning more about my relationship with depression. 

Joel’s Next Book

The US has a a new 988 system that grabs location, not just area code.
https://myconcealeddepression.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/my-concealed-depression-intro.mp4
  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest

More to See

The startling truth about coping statements for anxiety and depression

The Startling Truth About Coping Statements For Anxiety and Depression

October 28, 2020 By Depression Is Not My Boss

My 101 Coping Strategies for Anxiety

My 101 Best Coping Statements For Anxiety and Depression

October 18, 2020 By Depression Is Not My Boss

The Most Dangerous Kind of Depression Doesn’t Look Like Depression at All

April 7, 2026 By Depression Is Not My Boss

For Eight Years I Saw a Different Psychiatrist Every Year

March 12, 2026 By Depression Is Not My Boss

You Never Pay More, Yet Clicking These Links And Making a Purchase Helps Fund My Blog

PureFormulas.com-Pure Healthy Goodness, Highest-Grade Natural Supplements! Fast, Free Shipping!
Mosaic 250x250
Blog Meets Brand
Best Self Improvement & Personal Development Blogs - OnToplist.com
RSS Search

All my posts – Be careful, some of my older posts could be triggers

  • April 2026
  • March 2026
  • February 2026
  • January 2026
  • December 2025
  • November 2025
  • October 2025
  • September 2025
  • August 2025
  • July 2025
  • June 2025
  • May 2025
  • April 2025
  • March 2025
  • February 2025
  • January 2025
  • December 2024
  • November 2024
  • October 2024
  • September 2024
  • August 2024
  • July 2024
  • June 2024
  • May 2024
  • April 2024
  • March 2024
  • February 2024
  • January 2024
  • December 2023
  • November 2023
  • October 2023
  • September 2023
  • August 2023
  • July 2023
  • June 2023
  • May 2023
  • April 2023
  • March 2023
  • February 2023
  • January 2023
  • December 2022
  • November 2022
  • October 2022
  • September 2022
  • July 2022
  • June 2022
  • May 2022
  • April 2022
  • March 2022
  • February 2022
  • January 2022
  • December 2021
  • November 2021
  • October 2021
  • September 2021
  • August 2021
  • July 2021
  • June 2021
  • April 2021
  • March 2021
  • February 2021
  • January 2021
  • December 2020
  • November 2020
  • October 2020
  • September 2020
  • August 2020
  • July 2020
  • June 2020
  • May 2020
  • April 2020
  • March 2020
  • February 2020
  • January 2020
  • December 2019
  • November 2019
  • October 2019
  • September 2019
  • August 2019
  • July 2019
  • June 2019
  • May 2019
  • April 2019

Footer

Contact

Email:  my.concealed.depression@gmail.com

Privacy Policy

Recent

  • Why Most Budgets Fail in the First 7 Days (And What I Do in 10 Minutes Instead)
  • The Most Dangerous Kind of Depression Doesn’t Look Like Depression at All
  • For Eight Years I Saw a Different Psychiatrist Every Year
  • I Thought Therapy Was Today: A Lesson in Anger, Loneliness, and Emotional Growth
  • The Beetle by the Pool and What Panama Is Teaching Me About Retirement

Search

Products

  • Evergreen is the story of my life with major depressive disorder. I write to learn more about my mental health Share The Journey As I Write My Next Book - draft "Evergreen"
  • Presentation slide about a personal story using 3x5 cards and cover letters for job offers. The Six Second Cover Letter™ $19.99
  • A silhouette of a woman standing in water at sunset with birds flying overhead. 10 Page Gratitude Coloring Pages $9.99 Original price was: $9.99.$0.99Current price is: $0.99.
  • 5 gratitude coloring pages from my concealed depression to help reduce anxiety and depression Five - Gratitude Coloring Pages $9.99
  • Close-up of a person signaling silence with a finger on lips. The One Secret That Lands Your Dream Job[Course]

© Copyright 2020 · My Concealed Depression · All Rights Reserved · Designed by The Marketing Momma