How I stack up against others is not the issue.I end up “shoulding” all over myself when I think about others. Either I “should have helped,” “I shouldn’t have helped,” “I should have seen…” or “Why didn’t I see… " What a cluster. There is no good answer, but there is plenty of pain and suffering and emotional distress when you go down the “should of trail.”I am proud of myself … [Read more...] about My progress is my own business